When two dogs meet, four parties are involved: the two animals and the two humans responsible for them. The word "responsible" is the crux of this statement. Outside of a designated leash-free zone, both dogs must be on leashes when they meet. To do otherwise is impolite at best, and utterly irresponsible at worst.
This dynamic was made clear in a recent visit to Valley Java. Your Boulevardier had hoped to sit in the sun with the Trusty BoulevarDog, enjoy a beverage and a snack, and watch the morning unfold. Another dog -- a brown and black tiger-stripped pit bull -- and its owner sat near the door to Valley Java. As Your Boulevardier and the Trusty BoulevarDog approached the shop, the pit bull hopped to its feet and approached us. It was not on a leash. "Don't worry, it's friendly," the owner called out. Your Boulevardier interposed himself between the two animals, and expressed his opinion that it did not matter whether or not the other dog was friendly. (The Trusty BoulevarDog's behavior around other dogs is a subject for another day.) "It's okay if yours nips at mine," the man said, implying that such behavior would help to put his dog in its place. Your Boulevardier responded something to the effect that he disagreed with the man's assessment, and turned to leave. "You don't have to go," the man called after us. The best response Your Boulevardier could muster as he walked off was, "I'm not okay with untied dogs."
Perhaps the other fellow was right to a point. Perhaps his dog is friendly and would not have threatened the Trusty BoulevarDog. But any person's word about his dog's behavior, not backed up with a length of leash, is worthless. Much as we may love, train, and discipline our dogs, they are still animals. In the heat of the moment they will respond with instinct. The American Kennel Club seems to agree with this assessment; its document called "
Be a Responsible Dog Owner" includes the words "Make sure that you have a good strong leash and that you maintain control of the dog at all times," and "... the dog must be leashed at all times when taken outdoors."
Leaving Valley Java, Your Boulevardier and the Trusty BoulevarDog walked eastward to Peet's instead. (Apologies to Valley Java; one hopes some consolation is earned by the fact that two Starbucks were bypassed.) At Peet's, two dogs were leashed with their people at one end of the string of outdoor tables. The people at the opposite-end table -- a father and two sons, enjoying the sun and sharing a newspaper -- were asked if the Trusty BoulevarDog might be leashed to the table while a beverage was purchased. "Only if the dog stays away from us," the fellow replied. It was a completely reasonable request; the leash was shortened and made fast.
In Your Boulevardier's opinion, this is how dog owners must approach public situations with their animals. They should keep their pets tethered, they should ask permission, and they should be willing to take "No" for an answer. To do any less is disrespectful to other people and a disservice to the animals.